The Prodigal Daughter

give a shit about cats, but my room mate and her new find from the subway won’t let me sleep. it blows. it’s 150 am.

not to ever spend another christmas with my family again.

been trapped in this year like a bad dream. it’s been a year of utter disappointment in myself and surroundings. i found myself in the city of brotherly love again and it was all repeated. a sense of linear motion through a year on a straight line. that line does not go up, it just goes forward. the same rerun of desperation, desolation, and the feeling of being boxed in by the silver and brown buildings. scott once told me he hated it here because you can’t see the sky. i now know more then ever that he’s right. the sky grounds you. it lets you remember that we are hurdling around space like maniacs at the helm of a too big cruise ship crashing into an iceberg. the fucking titanic.

this is self reflection like i haven’t done in a while and so let’s be completely honest. i gave up on a life that was over before it even started. i left him out there with his cold selfishness. after that a peice of me felt like it had been taken out and that’s the cold truth of it. i have muted feelings if none at all. when i wrecked my mother’s car against that telephone pole most of it drained out of me and for a short time i was a happy fool. death stared me in the face and winked. my grandmother’s body laid a slab of chilled flesh and probably painted to look asleep. i decided then that’s not what we are. i decided that our bodies, if nothing else, contain an energy (if not a soul). we carry personal histories and i realized that as we cleaned her things out of her apartment. they were all just things anyway. and i hated the way we held onto them for sentimentality. even if i am the most sentimental loser you’ve ever met.

for a while i considered giving up writing. it seemed that poetry was a pointless expression of my own self absorption. that’s why i attempted the transmission series. it was a chance to write something that was only connected to me through observation. it had little to do with my own personal life. it was a way to observe and comment. i lost steam with it somewhere. i wasn’t sure what else to say with it. or what. if it even mattered. i still consider not writing. but this here, right here, it very important. there is no other way for me to get this out of my system which has been clogged and corroded as of late. i have been living in a past that doesn’t even exist. i have been clinging to memories that help no one. all of these things have prevented me from writing, friendships, lovers, family, and myself. this is only a part of me and it’s an ugly part.

i loved him so much and all i ever wanted was to give someone my love. to show them how big it was and let it belong to someone because sometimes it’s too big to hold even for myself. it’s not a fear of being alone. it’s a fear of not being able to let someone see who i really am. all of me. your family accepts you because they have to as do your good friends. but a stranger, now there’s a trick.

it’s not as if there haven’t been any other contenders. there’s someone right now, but i feel so wrung out that i can’t even tell what his intentions are. i feel like he should read this. then he would know how crazy i feel most of the time. how desperate and sad and pathetic i feel sometimes. i am not always funny and light hearted. i am not always so understanding of where YOU’RE coming from because i’m too wrapped up in myself. yet i acknowledge that. i know that everyone has a right to be selfish and we all are at times out of necessity. i feel fear to let anyone know who i am prevents me from doing so. it’s a rat eating its tail.

i let myself binge out on cocaine recently because i wanted to feel numb. it made me a sexless talker. it was a way to talk and not feel that fear. it made me lucid, but i hardly had control over my own hands enough to write. i decided that once it was gone i wouldn’t abuse substances so much anymore. i want to be clean from all of that. i want my mind to be clear and i want to start taking care of myself. i want to find the story that is important for me to tell even if it is comprised mostly of my own. sometimes i feel like i only have one good thing in me (artistically). i need to get it out but i don’t know what it is. i have all of the necessary components. i know how to make the letters dance into words and then into sentences. philadelphia doesn’t have to be what i’ve made it into and i’m fully aware of that.

that feels so. so much better.

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I can’t believe McNabb injured himself and is done playing for the season (he was number two in passing this year too!). I didn’t watch the game today but I know The Eagles lost. So I pout for the rest of the year while the Giants remain number one in the NFC east and we’re pushed to third under Dallas. So I guess I’ll have to wait for next year.

i don’t know how to feel anymore. everything in this town makes me think about him. i am completley useless it seems. i wish every day that he knows i want him in my life. and that he actually would be.

I have come to a conclusion. The only way to fight it is to write about it in response. I am working up the muster with vigilance. There is nothing left to do when you have been reduced to someone elses words. You must react with your own words. You must make it a war of lines and stanzas.

Aphasiac is just a clever word used in irony. It’s not something that I actually believe he is. I am ready to write my fourteen day response because now I am angry and that anger has temporarily replaced any feeling of love. It had to in order for me to collect myself and pick myself up. I am not going to give up, but I am going to “fight for lover’s rights”. We are connected wether or not he wants to admit to being scared. There’s no way to cut the cords until death.

When I eat my fast food I don’t really think about where it comes from, or what part of the animal it is that I am actually eating. I do not care if my fast food chicken nuggets are made out of all white meat. I’d actaully prefer it if they weren’t. Everyone knows dark meat are the juciest bits anyway. I am not sure when they changed this. Maybe I am crazy and they never really did. All I know is that I think liked them a whole hell of a lot better before.

They are all geminis. I am doomed. So doomed! Everyone I draw toward me is a Gemini. The most unreliable elusive sign. The hot and cold paradox of a sign. I swear myself off everyone. I am in hiding officially.